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A Perfect Sexy Weekend
A great way to cement a romantic or sexual relationship with a relatively new partner is to go on a sexy weekend getaway. It’s great if it can be done as a surprise, but that can be very difficult to plan especially with a new partner and even more especially if it will require taking any vacation days. 
If travelling with a spouse it is possible sometimes to call the spouse’s boss and make arrangements for time off for the surprise, but it is probably more difficult and possibly even inappropriate to do that if travelling with a boyfriend or girlfriend.
Porn and hacking
Imagine if you will watching the hottest Porn with just the right actor or actress giving the best fuck scene. Perhaps she is acting just like the kind of slut or whore that you like. Whatever the scene hacking is very much like this kind of Porn for those that do it. Almost all of your hackers have gotten into the work because it took them to a new and higher level of pleasure they can’t reach any other way. It engages their fast working minds in a way that other activities find hard to match at any time. Then one adds the illicit nature of what they’re doing and it’s easy to see how it can become addicting for many. They are constantly looking to test their skills against the latest and greatest of security measures and frequently do so just for bragging rights and the ability to say they did it and prove it.
Sometimes they are used for more devious means like corporate espionage and they are paid to do their work. That may involve stealing the secrets of a certain industry, or it may involve planting a virus that undermines the target companies work or damages a specific project. This kind of work however can become dangerous very quickly for several reasons. One reason naturally is the punishment they will receive if caught. A second reason is that this espionage activity is obviously secretive and is rather counter productive to bragging rights. A hacker may want to let everyone know that he was responsible, and this could cause a dangerous clash with his employers who hired him. If they have had no problems with hiring someone do to this dirty deed they may have no problem with permanently silencing a loud mouth hacker who wants to expose their plot because of a big mouth. If they are particularly conniving that may indeed be their plan from the start to make sure all loose ends are cut off and nothing leads back to them.
Porn and battle
Though it may not be as frequently seen as it used to be, there are still quite a few men and even some women who view the potential for battle almost like they would Porn viewing because of its appeal. Some are simply born warriors and they greet it with excitement rather than apprehension. They greet it with lust rather than fear or anxiety. This lust for battle doesn’t always mean that they are evil and wicked in their temperament or that they like killing, rather it only means that they deeply feel that fighting is their calling.
This calling is the same as that of a carpenter who sees a creation instead of a piece of wood. It’s like a stonemason who see’s a building amid a pile of stones. This call to war is what these men and some women are made for. They feel the sting of battle as something almost akin to sex in the feeling it brings them. They are aroused and brought to a state of intensity and awareness. They long to test themselves and to take themselves to the highest point of mastery that they can achieve. For them a good fight is just like a good fuck and they can’t get enough. Porn is a perfect comparison for these people. Like anyone else they may change callings and at some point if they live long enough they may decide that they’ve had enough or reached the pinnacle of their achievement and are at peace. Others get their wish and die fighting. These warriors will be around for as long as it is bred into people to wage war and fight. These warriors simply serve to fight and some may be indeed wicked, while others may see themselves as defenders of the weak. They are as varied as any other profession and have always been and so shall always be.
What is The Price On This
Old out dated attitudes from a time when people where less at choice about sex have a price to them. The first time they are let go of for whatever the reason is powerful for people. After that the only sex they want to have is free sex. Even if the realization that the pleasure that is had and the pleasure that is shared is the indivduals and has nothing to do with any one else is soaked in rum punch. After that the drive to make it a sober reality is strong. Countered only by the fear that there are no guarantees or security in being totally sexually open and owning ones own choice. The first thing out of that well meaning friends mouth is, that people like that are going to die old and alone.
A choice made for freedom of self is never made from fear of anything. In fact most of the time the free choice is often made past fears and doubts. Look at the truth of it. Even if a person fallows the security at the cost of there own passions in most cases it ends anyway.
The people involved just can not understand where all the passion and good connection went and part. The only people that become isolated and alone are people that refuse to be vulnerable about themselves to others. That has nothing to do with who a person fucks and for how long. Being caring and showing up to what matters is what make one feel held and loved in their old age and peaceful on the day of their death. Having free sex that is raw and real from moment to moment where the truth is told and the real needs of all involved are full-filled is anything but shallow and lonely. More often then not it leads to life long connections that have the room to change and grow.
Getting that hard fuck when you need it
Both sexes enjoy a good fuck. Sometimes it is hard to get your rocks off if you aren’t in a sexual relationship. Going out and trying to get laid can be difficult but not impossible.
Not all that long ago guys and girls went through the stages of dating, unless a girl was a slut. The stages were named after the bases in baseball. First base was the kiss. No tongue. Second base was a little fondling. Touching her tits outside her bra. Third base was oral sex. Usually a girl giving her guy a blow job. And home run was going all the way and fucking.
Today, especially on college campuses, getting hot cock inside some wet hole, a girl’s pussy or some guy’s ass, is something to be enjoyed by either sex. Slut is not always seen as a negative thing, unless the couple entering into the hookup find that they actually want a long term relationship.
Indiscriminate sex can be risky even if precautions have been taken. There is always the risk of STDs, sexual transmitted disease, pregnancy. But not all hookups mean fucking a total stranger. Sometimes a hookup can be with a friend or ex lover. Sometimes the term hookup can mean just hanging out, or just oral sex, or just a little finger fucking and hand job mutual masturbation.
Studies show that there are benefits for hooking up. Men don’t have to experience that fear of rejection. They know the woman is there for the same reason they are there. It is all about the sex. And only the details are left to uncover, like will she go down on him and deep throat his cock slurping down all his cum or will she make him wear a condom when he fucks her pussy.
Hooking up lessens the fear of dating. Studies have found that once a couple finds out if they are sexually compatible they can relax and begin to get to know the other person better and see if it is worth getting into a long term relationship with them. This is just the opposite of what guys and girls were told about dating even ten years ago.
Studies also found that more hook-ups happened at faster rate when one or both parties were drinking. So the excuse of drinking and falling into bed with a stranger is something that still holds true.