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One of the most powerful yet totally unnecessary tools used on young people as they grow is shame. In school and at home we are told shame on you for doing xyz. No other subject can bring the wrath of shame on a person more then sex. Young people learn fast and can learn to shame one another with a brutality that far exceeds the ability of any parent or priest. We all pass through a thick forest of shame growing up and by the time we are adults we can be driven to hide or deny one of the most basic and and beautiful needs we have. The time to Free sex from the bonds of shame is now. It can only lead to a more enjoyable sexual life. Here is how to tell if the shame should just be tossed aside and ignored. Does what you are doing harm you or anyone else? Do you have the full consent of the other adult or adults that you are being sexual with? If no one is hurt and all involved give a Hardy yes then the shame has got to go.
Shame can suffocate a mind and make the one who suffers from it feel all alone in the world. No matter the shame someone out there is into the same thing. Put the key words into a search window if you do not believe it. If the shame that is felt is paralyzing it might be time to talk to a sex therapist. If the level of shame that is held limits the amount of pleasure that can be felt there are simple things that can be done to help it move through and get out of the way of full and deep pleasure. One of the most common shaming issues for men is their cock its self. Never let it be seen and god forbid it should get hard. Men get most of this crap when they are just young boys and will carry it foreword. It is a worthy thing to make a date with a person that is into a little phallic worship. If one is the lover of a partner that seems ashamed of that wonderful magical wand of pleasure. It is not wise to go charging right down the middle just make a gentle effort to praise and express gratitude. Be relaxed and playful in the shower. Be verbal during sex.
