Posts Tagged ‘free sex’
Respectful Free Sex
The concept of free sex has really been altered over the past several years. It used to involve images of cheap sluts and even hookers, even though you technically have to pay for hookers. The idea of free sex simply was not a socially acceptable one in the mainstream. People looked down on it and the people involved. There was something tawdry and immoral about the whole thing. One thought of cheap motels on industrial highways that were rented out by the hour. There really was absolutely nothing positive about the image. Ever since the internet came roaring down the pike, though, free sex has undergone a radical transformation in the public’s mind. Nowadays, anyone with an internet connection is liable to be seeking all the free sex they can possibly get!
At What Price Free?
There are just so many times in our lives when we are drawn in by the lovely little word free, only to find out that there is some sort of catch or string attached that we were not made aware of in the beginning. When we search through the sites on the Internet that offer Free sex though, there really is free content that we can easily view at no charge whenever we like.
How many times in life have many of us responded to an advertisement offering something for free only to arrive at the store to find out that to get the free item, you must first purchase a certain other item which is not free, or spend a certain amount of money before you qualify for whatever you thought was going to be free. We end up leaving the store in anger and frustration, or else going home with items we do not want or need in addition to our free item which actually turned out to cost us quite a bit of money after all.
When we surf through the various adult web sites and entertainment options available to us on the Internet, we really and truly can find free content, and there is a lot of it. There are many sex sites out there that offer lots of free photos or free video clips in an effort to get us interested in paying to join their site. We can easily coast around from site to site checking out all of the free content without ever spending a penny. No, we will not get to watch the entire video, and we will certainly not be able to have live sex with anyone, but we can easily amuse ourselves for hours on end with no detrimental effect on our overworked pockets.
Sex on the Internet, if you are content with just watching or looking, really is free.
What is The Price On This
Old out dated attitudes from a time when people where less at choice about sex have a price to them. The first time they are let go of for whatever the reason is powerful for people. After that the only sex they want to have is free sex. Even if the realization that the pleasure that is had and the pleasure that is shared is the indivduals and has nothing to do with any one else is soaked in rum punch. After that the drive to make it a sober reality is strong. Countered only by the fear that there are no guarantees or security in being totally sexually open and owning ones own choice. The first thing out of that well meaning friends mouth is, that people like that are going to die old and alone.
A choice made for freedom of self is never made from fear of anything. In fact most of the time the free choice is often made past fears and doubts. Look at the truth of it. Even if a person fallows the security at the cost of there own passions in most cases it ends anyway.
The people involved just can not understand where all the passion and good connection went and part. The only people that become isolated and alone are people that refuse to be vulnerable about themselves to others. That has nothing to do with who a person fucks and for how long. Being caring and showing up to what matters is what make one feel held and loved in their old age and peaceful on the day of their death. Having free sex that is raw and real from moment to moment where the truth is told and the real needs of all involved are full-filled is anything but shallow and lonely. More often then not it leads to life long connections that have the room to change and grow.
Find Free Sex
One of the most powerful yet totally unnecessary tools used on young people as they grow is shame. In school and at home we are told shame on you for doing xyz. No other subject can bring the wrath of shame on a person more then sex. Young people learn fast and can learn to shame one another with a brutality that far exceeds the ability of any parent or priest. We all pass through a thick forest of shame growing up and by the time we are adults we can be driven to hide or deny one of the most basic and and beautiful needs we have. The time to Free sex from the bonds of shame is now. It can only lead to a more enjoyable sexual life. Here is how to tell if the shame should just be tossed aside and ignored. Does what you are doing harm you or anyone else? Do you have the full consent of the other adult or adults that you are being sexual with? If no one is hurt and all involved give a Hardy yes then the shame has got to go.
Shame can suffocate a mind and make the one who suffers from it feel all alone in the world. No matter the shame someone out there is into the same thing. Put the key words into a search window if you do not believe it. If the shame that is felt is paralyzing it might be time to talk to a sex therapist. If the level of shame that is held limits the amount of pleasure that can be felt there are simple things that can be done to help it move through and get out of the way of full and deep pleasure. One of the most common shaming issues for men is their cock its self. Never let it be seen and god forbid it should get hard. Men get most of this crap when they are just young boys and will carry it foreword. It is a worthy thing to make a date with a person that is into a little phallic worship. If one is the lover of a partner that seems ashamed of that wonderful magical wand of pleasure. It is not wise to go charging right down the middle just make a gentle effort to praise and express gratitude. Be relaxed and playful in the shower. Be verbal during sex.
Am I Healthy Enough For Sex?
People live on stress as a steady diet now. In fact there are those that live on such a high threshold of stress that stillness or a moment without the next thing to do can drive them to drink. Not all of us are hunky Vin Diesel types with personal trainers. And we do not have to be. A set of small changes can give more stamina and deeper enjoyment of free sex. First and foremost is the reduction of stress. Stress is a thief and it will steal your energy even the motivation to have a good time in bed. Stress uses up the b vitamins in your body as well as most of your c. Ironically it is the B vitamin’s that combat stress and c boosts immunity and fights the effects of aging. Walk stress off when ever you can. Teach yourself to relax through calming music and meditation. The pluses of these activities.
A healthy heart and circulatory system. A longer life not to mention saving on gas for the car. No need to brake the bank to replace all of those wonderful vitamins if the day is a bit much. There is a fizzy powder for cents a packet called –emergency- just add water and drink. The next thing to pay attention to is cardio to have good and easy control over breathing during sex is to have more control over ejaculation. To have a healthy circulatory system and a healthy heart is to have healthy and strong erections. Walking every day or do a gentle Thi Chi routine this can give you both as well as more flexibility. Muscle not only gives you strength it gives you the ability to burn a higher amount of calories at a stand still. The gym is not for everyone. If it is not a good fit try a sport or just take the walking to the next level and take a few long distance hikes a month. Time is a rare commodity to most. It is the simple and small changes that will get the the passion to happen. Avoid the elevator and take the stairs when you can. Walk to shop or to work. Avoid the hot dog stand at lunch and go to the salad and sandwich shop. Stop drinking caffeine order juice instead of a pop. On you lunch get out of the building and sit on a bench at the very least. In no time you will see a change with out the expensive gym membership.