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A man’s whole body from his nose to his toes is made to feel pleasure. Culturally men are pressured to achieve sex with a woman more than they are they are ever shown how to deeply enjoy it. This is one of the main reasons that women see many men as hit-and-run artists. You cannot create what you have not experienced for yourself very well or often. You might be able to stumble on it though. Even if you do get your lady there can you both go back there.
As a man you are fostered into the belief to some degree that your genitalia have a mind of their own. So much so that you might begin to view them as separate from the rest of your body. Your groin becomes a powerful urge all unto its self with no connection to the rest of your wonderful powerful biddies. Free your sexual feelings from the focused area of your groin. Even without taking sexual meditation there are some simple practices that you can do that will give you more pleasure for a longer period of time. You can even master being able to reach orgasm with-out losing your erection. Get in the habit of breathing deeply and in a natural rhythm during sex. Go slow even if you are alone. Push past feelings of awkwardness and do self massage all over you body. Help your lady out. Many women are conditioned to touch your groin more than anything else. Invite her to touch all of you. Model for her touch her the same way you wish to be touched. When your pleasure is intense breath in deep when it lulls breath out slowly. You will notice over time that your whole body will get involve and soon you will able to hold your ejaculate.
To go deeper into the practice of enjoying your orgasms or reaching new heights with it, find a good Tantra teacher or take a Kudilini yoga class.
